right family.................

"What you say or do is from the depths of your unconscious self."





It's another saturday away from my family. Honestly I missed them. Family is God's gift to us. Many says that their family is a curse which is irreversible- but it is not. Yes, we are bound in our family. We are born in a family which we do not chose, but on the second thought that family is the right and proper divine gift for us. It is the correct family to mold us for our future use.The right group of people to primary establish our foundation towards life and our journey in it. Our God is very wise to give us that basic unit of our community. It is where we learn the first- our first word, first action, first tradition to follow, first management course, first lesson in leadership, first subject about love, first art seminar, first challenge in life, first assignment in home economics, etc. The way we learn in our family depends on how we accept it for ourselves. That is why many consider that their family is a home of sufferings or much more, a curse. They never realize how special their family are in their life and future. Aside from the family is the real home we got in the midst of trials, it teaches us the first thing we must learn. Leaders get their courage in their family. Many gets inpiration from them(family). We are challenge by our fathers to take a strong principle in life. Our mother taught us how to care, to be a lover, to be soft sometimes and to dream. Our brothers give us strategies to surpass the competition in life. Our sisters help us recognize the beauty we do not see.

Sound idealistic and stereotypic, but what about taking a while to think what our family contribute to us. Mabye, they've done us harm but don't be pessimistic. C'mon in every thing there is two side, sometimes more than that. Look at the brighter side and end so much self-thinking with self-pity. We have a choice to take our family in the negative or in the positive. There I could say what life you would have. It can be a life of misery or a life of satisfaction.

Another thinking, that I hope strikes what you think about life, family and yourself. God bless and bless God.


*note: this is first posted at semaj-lien.weebly.com